Our waiting list is currently closed, whilst we catch up. Thank you for your patience
Our waiting list is currently closed, whilst we catch up. Thank you for your patience
Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk
Create a relationship with your children based on Trust, connection, collaboration and compassion
Heal wounds from your childhood, so these don’t stand in the way of your relationship with your child(ren).
Create peace and mutual understanding with yourself and your children
With secure attachment, we can give you the tools to be the catalyst for change and promote positive mental wellbeing In your child.
... that the parent is the most powerful catalyst for change in their child’s life. This is why we work closely with both the child and the parents or caregivers, understanding that the foundation for a child’s mental health and well-being lies in the attachment they share with their primary caregivers.
Research and science consistently show that a strong, secure attachment between a child and their caregivers is the most important factor in supporting their mental health. When parents are empowered with the right tools and knowledge, they can create a nurturing environment that fosters emotional security, resilience, and growth in their child.
We provide parents with evidence-based tools grounded in neuroscience, attachment theory, and positive parenting practices. These tools are designed to help you build stronger, more trusting connections with your child, rooted in compassion and mutual understanding. Through this, we help you to strengthen the emotional bond with your child, enabling you to be the supportive guide they need to thrive.
But we don’t just focus on the child; we recognise that parents must be supported too. You can’t pour from an empty cup. That’s why we offer parent counselling and coaching sessions, helping you to heal from past wounds and emotional challenges. By working on your own healing and self-awareness, you can develop new, more effective parenting strategies that not only strengthen your connection with your child but also contribute to their emotional and psychological well-being.
Through your healing and growth as a parent, you gain the ability to create a positive, lasting impact on your child’s mental health. With psychoeducational tools and ongoing support, we empower you to be the catalyst for change in your child’s life, helping them to build emotional resilience, self-regulation, and a sense of belonging and safety.
When you book a discovery consultation with me, we’ll sit down together and talk in further depth so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started (waiting list dependent). If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible.
There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
"Integrative therapy is the art of weaving together the threads of various modalities, creating a tapestry of healing that honors the complexity and uniqueness of each individual's journey towards wellness."
Whether it's for Postnatal Depression, past trauma or parental burnout, I got you!
"Parent coaching is about equipping you with the tools and support to nurture your child's potential and build a stronger, more connected relationship."
Whether you are overwhelmed or struggling with behaviours, We can help!
☼ Understand your child’s behaviour and build a deeper, more compassionate connection.
☼ Manage your child’s big emotions with understanding and support.
☼ Explore how generational patterns may be keeping you from being your ideal parent.
☼ Experience a safe space where your parenting concerns are heard and understood.
☼ Receive support that focuses on connection over correction, fostering trust and cooperation.
Download Our Guide to find out more!
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This Guide explains Kinsley's Approach and her fees.
The Happy Parent & Child Initiative
Hadleigh Business Centre, Crockatt Road, Hadleigh, Ipswich, IP7 6RN, United Kingdom
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Due to an increase in demand for our services, our waiting list for child therapy is currently closed.
We are working hard to accommodate all families, and we appreciate your patience during this time.
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